we dont experience life , we experince life what we focus on.
The fact that humans can have the chronic pain , not the chronic pleasure should be the sole reason that all the decisions have to be taken in such a way that to reduce suffering not increasing happiness.
playing by rules in life ? for me rules are just variables or workaround to achive the desired result in life .
we dont suffer from life , we suffer from thoughts about life .
life moves pretty much fast , once in a while if you dont stop and take a look you might miss it