As an engineer, I naturally see the world through systems, logic, and process. But over time, I’ve realized that even something as soulful as love aligns beautifully with how we approach problems in engineering and even in something as simple as a Google search.

Think of finding the right life partner like searching for the right answer on Google.

You type in your intent (what you’re looking for), then click on a result that’s your first date. If what you find resonates, feels aligned, and has potential, you spend more time there. You read deeper, explore, and engage.

But if it doesn’t feel right press back. Go to the next result. Don’t waste energy trying to force meaning into the wrong page.

Trying to extract truth from the wrong search result is inefficient just like trying to force a relationship that isn’t aligned. Love, like engineering, thrives on clarity, alignment, and intentional design.

The key is knowing when to explore and when to move on.