There is nothing worst in the society then a lazy man ,
he is sort of leaving it on table , all that potential on the table its bad for him

so the next thing you do is you have a family and you take care of them, take care of that tribe
then you take care of your extended family
then if you have more resources beyond that , then take care of your local tribe
you take care of people, you start trying do some goo for the world , and
thats how you earn both respect and self confidence and you live upto your potential

the more you have , the more is rightfully expected of you and i think its a good compact with society
when highly capable people express and flex there capability by giving more and more
and by doing more and more and society rewards them with one thing they cant get otherwise
which is status

and thats what an alpha male is to me is , not the one who get to eats first but eats last
when they do that out of there own will and self respect and pride
society rewards them by calling them an alpha male by giving them status

thats my one defination of alpha male , another one is
alpha male is the one who knows what to sacrifice , its all about knowing what we are willing to sacrifice , knowing one self , knowing whats there limit .

i consider my dangerous and competent ,
i know what exactly i wanna sacrifice and i know i am taking care of my family .

am i alpha ? people who know me will know peole who dont and just reading this
will never know , ha ha .