Love is not “mine.” Love is not “yours.”
It’s not about 50-50, or 90-10.
So what is love, really?

Let me tell you a moment that revealed it to me.

A year ago, I started a business. Things got hard. I was running out of money.
I took a loan but it wasn’t enough.
Then, without me even asking, my sister took a loan for me. My mother gave me what she had.
They didn’t wait for explanations.
My need became their need. My struggle became theirs.

And that’s when I realized:

” Love is when our fav person need is our need , and our need is there need ”

Love Comes in Many Forms
Sometimes love looks like intimacy, romance, sex, or children  in that form, it’s a partner or spouse.
Sometimes love is empathy, quiet sacrifice, and showing up again and again in that form, it’s family.
But beneath all these different expressions, the essence of love stays the same:

It’s when your well-being is no longer separate from someone else’s.

Love, As I See It Now
To me, love is not a bond it is liberation
When I look at someone I love, I don’t want to possess them.
I want them to become who they truly are fully, fearlessly.

I don’t need them to stay beside me forever.
But I want them to grow, even if it means growing away from me.
Love is not measured by time, proximity, or ownership. It’s a soul-to-soul recognition.
When she breathes, I feel it.
When she dances in joy, even miles away I smile inside.

To love deeply is not to say, “You are mine.”
It is to whisper, “You are free and still, I remain within you.”

My Second Definition: Growth Without Expectation
If I were to offer one more meaning, it’s this:
Love is helping each other grow without asking for anything in return.

In Conclusion
Love is not an agreement.
It’s not a formula.
It’s not a trade.

It’s that quiet, spiritual knowing
that we are not separate,
that your joy is mine,
your pain is mine,
and your freedom is my devotion.

And in that knowing,
we find the kind of love that doesn’t bind
but sets the soul free.