i think people love you in version x , like when you meet them vibe with them
they match the vibe , but ofcourse we are humans we evolve we learn
and eventually it leads to change within us

they dont like the change , they stop talking to you , because you have killed the person or version of you which they like and eventually they stop talking to you

but ofcourse you cant pretend to be good or likeable and go back to talk shit
certainly i dont do that , my authenticity is what i do at that particular point
its upto them

people has to be mature to accept the change , ofcourse core nature remains same , but growth should be accepted
like if you and your friends hangout 1 week once , now after few years that changes to monthly once , it should be fine as long as growth in positive side

i think people dont like all version of us , thats where marriage holds highest value your life partner will or willing to love all versions of you , thats the one of the beauty about marriage ha ha

yeah i guess , finally i can conclude like people dont like the upgraded or downgraded version of you and they will be waiting for one good reason to leave you and the minute they find that they will leave aramse .. no extra things